Sassy Black Friend

I suck at making decisions it seems

I’m trying to decide whether or not to move in with the boyfriend in two months. A friend of his owns a house in a cute neighborhood, but is moving to Austin, TX for work. He’s not going to try and sell the house because of the market right now, so he has offered to let the boyfriend rent it for at least a year.

Together we can totally afford the rent and utilities, and it has a great office setup in the basement, so work would be easy. But we weren’t talking about moving in together until this offer came up, so I’m very unsure. Financially and practically it makes total sense. But it would suck to push ourselves into it for those reasons without considering the cost to our relationship.

So, I have a lot of thinking to do. And I’m not really sure how to make this decision. Where’s a magic 8 ball when you need one?