Don’t let me interrupt your fight

Written by SBF on January 24, 2009 – 5:40 pm

I woke up this morning with a strong desire to do pilates. For the first time in months. I remembered that I had a couple of passes left for the place in J’s building, so I called to see if she was around. I went over and they were busy, so I just decided to hang out with J for a while.

What I didn’t know is she had her not boyfriend over and they were in the middle of a 20 hour fight. I’m pretty sure the point of not being boyfriend and girlfriend is to avoid just that, but whatever.

She and I are sitting on the couch playing with the cat and talking about work crap. Not boyfriend is in the kitchen. Every few minutes he comes out and they kind of glare at each other, then go back to what they were doing before. So romantic.

After about 20 minutes of this I realize I’m going to need some coffee or a nap. I know J doesn’t drink it, but I figured she might have some for the boy. So I ask. Yikes. Of course, somehow I managed to blunder right in the middle of the fight. Something about what the difference is between being accommodating and being subservient. You can imagine how well that went over.

Long story slightly less long, I left them to it and took a long walk instead of pilates. J called to apologize. They’re both from Philly so they fight 80% of the time. Just reminded me that while he is a terrible sick person my boyfriend is great because we rarely take bad moods out on each other.

Oh, and J wanted to talk to me because she’s been reading about some small business opportunity and is thinking about starting her own company. Brave and crazy, but I love it.


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